February 28, 2007

Tall People Don't Look Down Upon Short People.

Trust me, I know. At 5 feet nothing, I've spent ages sitting on the front benches, standing at the head of almost every line in school and college - be it the morning assembly, or the PT class or school choir. I've heard everything from, "Hey Shorty", "Hi Thumbelina" to "She's vertically challenged" (followed by a guffaw). Or the sympathetically disguised, sugar coated insult "You would have been gorgeous if you'd been a little taller". What the heck does that mean, anyway!
Funny thing is, I was always expected to be unhappy about my height, or the lack thereof. The fact that I'm not bothered about it, bothers people.
Most of the comments I've heard, and mostly ignored, have come from people who top me by about two or three inches. The really,really tall ones? They never stooped so low.
There was this girl in my Xth std tuition class - Varsha. She must've easily been 5 feet 10 inches or so. We sometimes walked together to class. We probably made a funny picture, but, she never once said a word about my 'handicap'.
It just goes to show, that people who are secure within themselves are happy to be and let others be. It's the ones who lack something, that pick on others' weaknesses to make themselves feel tall. Pun intended!

5 comments:

vandy said...

wow asawari!
this is a case of a very beautiful mind!fantastic!
vandan.

Asawari said...

hey i am 5'9" tall and all my friend were under 5'4" always........it never really mattered you see. because to make friends what matters is not the height of the person but rather its the depth of the heart that counts :)

and believe me, as far as looking gorgeous goes, let the guys decide that about women, and i find all my tall friends falling for these really puny chicks - says something about their looks doesnt it???? :D

Anonymous said...

You know what? I think its probably cause they want to have your height. Yes yes its true - I am a huge example. I am 5'3 but I really yearn to be one of the shorties.
But then I dont go teasing them, I just call them cute names purely indicating my heartfelt admiration.

Many girls when they grow up feel this height problem, at least where I come from - something I observed. Noone likes to admit it, but its visibly clear everyone likes to be the shortest in the group cause that somehows makes you the cutest!

Anonymous said...

By the way is this your first post in this blog? I cant see a link to older posts.

Sorry for using this space to ask that!

Anonymous said...

Vertically Challenged!!!

Must be some creative fella....

I had this standing first in the assembly problem, and teachers thinking I am in std 7th when I was really in 12th.

I had grown alot since...but physical properties do not matter.

Some one has rightly said Beauty ies within.